{"id":5228,"date":"2016-11-11T09:51:05","date_gmt":"2016-11-11T14:51:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tambulimedia.com\/?p=5228"},"modified":"2023-07-24T10:22:49","modified_gmt":"2023-07-24T14:22:49","slug":"dont-be-a-bully","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tambulimedia.com\/dont-be-a-bully\/","title":{"rendered":"Don\u2019t Be a Bully !"},"content":{"rendered":"
By Dr. Mark Wiley<\/p>\n
Bullying is dirty and inexcusable. The cycles of what happens to create a bully, of what happens to make one susceptible to being bullied, and how these interactions lead to substance abuse and suicide later in life, are related to how children are treated and treat others, and how parents raise their children. There\u2019s just no excuse for the bully phenomenon in a humane world.<\/span><\/p>\n When kids complain of feeling ill, skip school, express fears about things that may otherwise seem benign, we need to ask questions. <\/span><\/p>\n I was bullied in elementary school and I was beaten up a few times. <\/span><\/p>\n Thankfully, my mother enrolled me in martial arts classes, which turned the tides and also\u00a0led to my interests in Asian healing systems and spiritual traditions. By middle school I could defend myself a bit, but more importantly I had developed confidence, which allowed me to be more secure about myself and not care about what bullies would say to me. It made me less of a victim. By high school I had turned all the bullies into either friends of mine (and thus helped change their behaviors), or I stood my ground enough that they left eventually me alone.<\/span><\/p>\n But everyone isn\u2019t that fortunate. The harm that bullying does can carry on into adulthood. That\u2019s why it\u2019s an issue for all of us.<\/span><\/p>\n