What if most self-defense training is teaching the wrong thing?
In this episode of Transformations with Mark V. Wiley, Teja VanWicklen breaks down why traditional self-defense often fails women—and what actually works in real-world situations.
Drawing from decades of martial arts training, personal experience, and deep research, Teja introduces the concept of Protective Offense—a radically different approach that moves beyond techniques into awareness, psychology, behavior, and survival.
This is not about memorizing moves.
It’s about changing how you perceive danger, make decisions, and respond under pressure.
In this conversation:
• Why traditional self-defense models fall short
• The psychology of fear, freezing, and aggression
• Situational awareness and recognizing intent early
• The self-defense continuum—from prevention to recovery
• Emotional regulation and self-de-escalation
• What actually works in real-world encounters
Teja’s work reframes self-defense as a complete human system—not just physical skill, but perception, decision-making, and lived awareness.
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Teja VanWicklen is a writer, researcher, and self-defense specialist focused on reimagining how women approach personal safety. With decades of experience across martial arts, physical training, and behavioral study, she developed the concept of Protective Offense—a system that integrates awareness, psychology, and real-world survival strategies.
Great content at www.InnerLifeWithMarkWiley.com